
May 28, 2004
By Geoff Pevere
A domestic thriller in which a neglectful husband gets his comeuppance while watching TV, Rolf de Heer's Alexandra's Project would certainly make for a profoundly squirmy date movie.
Consisting largely of shots of a horrified middle-aged man named Steve (Gary Sweet) sitting on his La-Z-Boy while the videotaped image of his wife Alexandra (Helen Buday) systematically cites every act of marital indifference he has committed - most of which have naturally never occurred to him - it's a movie that will leave few men unrattled and many women vicariously satisfied.
Even the bare-bones dramatic situation is a metaphor for cross-gender payback: It's as though a guy popped in a porn tape in the VCR to find his wife looking back at him.
Set on the 40th birthday of Steve, a blandly handsome suburban businessman who lives with his wife and two kids in Adelaide, Australia, Alexandra's Project begins by creating an effective sense of looming domestic discord. While Steve's happy-go-lucky demeanour suggests a day like any other - and that's the point - the nervous, drawn-looking Alexandra suggests something more sinister is afoot.
Perhaps this won't be a day like all the others.
As we follow Steve through his big day, de Heer keeps ratcheting up the sense of dread by isolating certain incidents (like Steve knocking his family picture over) and playing up cracks in the man's smugly controlled veneer.
Then he goes home. The house is dark, the lightbulbs have been removed, the furniture moved. Below a banner gaily announcing "Happy Birthday Steve!" is a videotape on the TV that reads "Play Me." For most of the rest of the film, Steve will sit in a chair and watch.
The tape is basically the expression of Alexandra's years of accumulated humiliation, anger and neglect.
Initially presenting itself as a playful striptease but then proceeding into far darker forms of up-close-and-personal confrontation, Alexandra's tape is offered as a form of intimate torture. It takes careful pleasure from exposing Steve's shortcomings, exploiting his sense of marital presumption by offering the spectacle of voyeuristic infidelity.
Ultimately, the home movie screws with his head in the way he has presumably screwed with Alexandra's for years, perhaps making the "project" seem unduly cruel and harsh considering the nature of the crimes it aims to punish.
But that could also be interpreted as the cunning in Rolf de Heer's project. If, for male viewers, the punishment seems to exceed the crime, they're in precisely the same position as Steve himself. As far as Alexandra is concerned, Steve is guilty of no sin so great as thinking he hasn't done anything wrong.
And what a great way to get back at the guy: By confronting him through the one thing he probably gives his full attention.
--Geoff Pevere/ Toronto Star - Review